monsieur-rocketship:

i-am-aileen:

HER: I hate my boss!
HIM: Then change jobs.

HER: I was late for school!
HIM: Next time, don’t go on a movie marathon.

HER: I’m having a bad day.
HIM: You should try to cheer up.

HER: I hate my mom.
HIM: Then kill her—

Kidding aside, yes. Men loooove fixing things (problems per se), which is a piss off because most women aren’t looking into fixing anything; we don’t need anyone to fix our frustrations unless we explicitly ask so. Generally, we just want to vent out which I think, is a mystery to most men because they will be all: “Why even tell me if you don’t want a solution?”

I dunno. I hope I discovered this important fact sooner because I remember how every damn time that I tried to share a problem with my then ‘other’ guy best friend, he would keep on throwing suggestions. That’s why I would eventually get frustrated for even trying to talk to him. Ending scene: we fight. (He would also often philosophize me which of course, ticks me off).Anyway…

This reality stays. I think things would go smoother if girls would actually try to explain to their guys what they’re trying to do; and that I hope that the guys have an understanding mind (unlike mi muchacho). 

So, guys, please don’t try to fix everything unless we’re asking for it. We’re not that helpless. Really.

But of course, do fix the simple stuff like bad wiring, electricity whatnot’s, etc. etc. without us or anyone asking.

Well, women don’t understand that men just don’t give a damn. That’s the reality of it okay? Yes, we listen and shit, but when it happens 24/7? You really think we have the attention span to listen to girls talk about the same goddamn problem 20 fucking times in one fucking day? That’s an exaggeration but you know what i mean. That’s why girls have girlfriends and boys have… alone time. It’s not that we don’t care about what you’re going through, we just don’t see the POINT in complaining if you don’t want to do anything about it. The difference about men and women is so damn obvious, yet both genders expect SO MUCH from each other. Men don’t care that much while women care SO much. Men are more logical, women are emotional. Men think about what they say before they say it, women say whatever the hell they want to say at any given time. The list goes on. 

Don’t get mad at us when we ‘try to fix things.’ It’s in our nature. Don’t get mad at us when you do what is natural to us because it just shows the world you’re not quite mature to know or see the difference between the genders. We leave you alone with your shit, you leave us alone with ours. It’s the same way we don’t get mad at girls that yap about the whatever the fuck us men don’t care about and we just keep quiet and ACT like we give a shit. You don’t hear us complain or get angry at you over it. So, do the same for us men. When we “try to fix it” don’t go nuts on us. 

 ”Well, women don’t understand that men just don’t give a damn.”

Well, and that too. :)) Haha, can totally agree on that one. If I may just add, I guess men don’t quite understand (at least as based from most of my guy friends) that when a woman’s on a roll, they should choose their words carefully or else they might as well have been asking for hell to break loose.

It can’t be helped either that girls would like their men to always give a damn. Sometimes, we women just like drama and emotion to overflow like shit and our man to always be by our side. (We can be such needy bitches. Yes.)

And I definitely say ‘aye, you’re right’ to whatever you’ve stated above there too because there surely are a LOT of qualities that are unique to our gender; and to yours too.

I guess I should have revised what I said, but in a way, I think you know what I was trying to say. On my part, I just didn’t know the difference before. I expected my ex-best-friend-slash-ex-boyfriend to understand everything that I was trying to say; that’s why every time that he would keep on throwing some suggestions it would just make me even crazier—because even if he cared, it irritated me that he was trying to tell me what to do when that wasn’t even what I was after.

So this entry was somehow mainly targeted to the guys (for me, on a certain someone LOL) who often wouldn’t know what’s happening whenever their girl is going on a PMSy mood and they try to say something or anything to show their acknowledgement or whatever…

I tell you, I have enough guy friends complaining to me lately as to why their girls are getting crazier by the day :)) Sometimes they said that the best option for them is to just shut up—and by our book, it’s another wrong thing to do because we’d immediately think that you don’t care.

Well of course, I could have turned the tables around and ranted about how girls should cut the crap and be less emotional and shiz, but that’s a tiring tirade for me because we won’t ever stop being freakin’ emotional. I just thought that for the men, at least they could act like they care (armed with their right choice of words and their mind in someplace else) whenever the women would like to rant, and they are all that their girl can see at that definite yet unfortunate moment. LOL. (So much for us wanting reassurance on care. LOL.).

Simply put: yessir, it can get complicated! It’s always complciated. :)) That’s why it’s quite understable that when it gets to the real thing, whatever point that we’re trying to put across here would also get lost while in action; hence, the fights. So for me, it’s a hassle, yes. But that’s what’s quite interesting about both of our genders and life in general.

_{I hope I’m making sense, HAHA.I’m high on caffeine and the flow of my ideas is not… well whatever. :))}